PMs with the Stalker

[watchmakersylar]

I am airing dirty laundry here, because it is the best way to show that I am not preying on shades_of_sylar. As you will see in this conversation, I told her to leave me alone, yet she felt the need to start following me again yesterday with another account. She is a cyber stalker, and I am done with keeping my mouth shut. From now on if she contacts me in anyway, I will publicly print her activities on my LJ and other places. I am done being the quiet victim while she gets away with making me miserable.

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shades_of_sylar wrote:
I'll unfollow you on twitter for now. Let me know when we're friends again.
--- thewatchmaker wrote:
> You don't know how to see your profile? I can't talk to you right now. I am so creeped out that I have no words for it. But here's a timeline for you.
>
> thewatchmaker LJ 10/17/07
> thewatchmaker twitter 3/30/09
> Shadesofgray RP set up on LJ 7/20/09
>
> shades_of_sylar twitter 8/26/09
> shades_of_sylar LJ 10/17/09
> shades_of_play 10/17/09
>
> I'd brush it off as an accident if your names weren't so similar to my RP's name, and you weren't using my graphics on your Twitter back then. I'm sure you remember that.
>
> This might be something that happened 2 years ago, but I have been living in fear of you for those two years because of your behavior.
>
> I'm sure that's not what you wanted. You wanted me to like you. Instead you've made me afraid of you. Thinking about you makes me shake and cry. You have bullied me to the point where I can't even function.
>
> This will be my last conversation with you EVER, and I mean that. Please feel free to rant about me or unfollow me on Twitter. I don't care anymore. I just want you to leave me alone and stop doing things that scare me.
>
> Lee
> --- shades_of_sylar wrote:
> > I can't even find your profile. I tried by doing a search, but it won't search.
> >
> > --- thewatchmaker wrote:
> > > It's on the profile.
> > >
> > > --- shades_of_sylar wrote:
> > > > How can you tell when someone started their LJ? I don't even remember when I started mine... and I have no idea when anyone else started theirs.

Comments

[jackvelvet.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry this is happening to you. :( *HUGS*

[sylar.livejournal.com]

It's been going on for two years. I would have kept my mouth shut, but she couldn't even go 3 weeks without finding a need to be involved with me again.

I went through LJ this morning and banned all of her accounts everywhere.

*hugs*

[jackvelvet.livejournal.com]

You probably can't share her IP address, can you?

Can you at least report her IP address to LJ?

[sylar.livejournal.com]

This is a very old listing on her. I should probably update it.

http://thewatchmaker.livejournal.com/119893.html

[sylar.livejournal.com]

This is the most recent ISP 108.111.145.222

[jackvelvet.livejournal.com]

Oh dear god. The fact that the list needs to be *updated* is...IDEK.

Police involvement needed. Over state lines though...would that be FBI territory? I know that cyber-bullying is being taken seriously now, I just don't know whose jurisdiction it would be.

[sylar.livejournal.com]

My problem is she does it through Twitter where ISPs aren't tracked, and they don't give a shit. So unless she does something on LJ other than annoy me, I can't do a thing. I tried 2 years ago.

[jackvelvet.livejournal.com]

Did a search on the FBI website. Multiple things came up. Thought I'd link the results so you can check out if you need to. (http://www.fbi.gov/fbi-search?cx=004748461833896749646%3Ae41lgwqry7w&cof=FORID%3A10%3BNB%3A1&ie=UTF-8&q=cyber+bullying&sa=Search&siteurl=www.fbi.gov%2F#output=xml_no_dtd&client=google-csbe&cx=004748461833896749646%3Ae41lgwqry7w&cof=FORID%3A10%3BNB%3A1&siteurl=www.fbi.gov%2F&ie=UTF-8&q=cyber+bullying&sa=Search) Maybe see which case matches your own.

If Melissa Gero is her real name, the authorities can work off of that.

[sylar.livejournal.com]

Of course I just realized that my niece works for Interpol. Muahahhahaha

[rogueapprentice.livejournal.com]

This is so astoundingly...IDEK. It's like she doesn't even REACT. So freaking bizarre.

Sorry you're going through this, dear.

[sylar.livejournal.com]

I can't even wrap my brain around her inability to understand two simple words like Fuck Off.

[game-byrd.livejournal.com]

You know she's fucked up when she becomes an example to others of what not to be.

[sylar.livejournal.com]

I should show you my rant about her on Bad RPers. As a fellow gamer, you'll die laughing.

[game-byrd.livejournal.com]

Link me up. I need a laugh.

[sylar.livejournal.com]

Be careful what you wish for my friend.

She is Chickie #2 http://bad-rpers-suck.livejournal.com/7576195.html

[game-byrd.livejournal.com]

I think you must have cross-posted that to cult of rp, because I'd read it before (the events, not the bad rpers suck post).

I've seen some real doozies in gaming. I've been hanging out with my mom and a neighbor since my divorce got rolling and I've been both saddened and pleased to find that the non-gaming crowd is just as twisted and messed up. The drama this weekend was that the neighbor had met someone on Facebook and invited them over, since they only lived an hour away. Said person showed up, rummaged through their stuff, found the neighbor's anti-anxiety pills, took seven of them, got stoned off their rocker and roamed the house like a loony until they called the cops to remove the person. Person texts my neighbor the next day: "WFT?!? Did I do something to offend you?"

Now the neighbor is in your situation, but rather than being stalked by someone at a distance, the person knows where they live and is only an hour away. I'm helping keep an eye on her house in case persona non grata returns.

I hope your antagonist moves on with her life and stops bothering you. I'd rather you weren't bothered.

[sylar.livejournal.com]

Jesus. Never EVER meet someone in your home! That's what Starbucks are for.